Nepali Grandfather of 68 Year Old Goes back to School



Durga Kami, 68, who is studying tenth grade at Shree Kala Bhairab Higher Secondary School, poses for a picture wearing his school uniform at the door of his one-room house in Syangja.

Kami walks for over an hour everyday to reach school and hang out with his 14-year-old classmates; finishing school had always been a dream, so after a decade of being a widower, he decided to go back to the classroom.

Poverty prevented Kami finishing his studies as a child and achieving his goal of becoming a teacher.

Now at age 68, the father of six and grandfather of eight goes to school six days a week to complete his studies and escape a solitary home life following the death of his wife.

The buzz created by the children in the Shree Kala Bhairab higher secondary school stands in stark contrast to the quietude of Kami’s isolated one-room home, with its leaky roof and frequent power cuts.

“To forget my sorrows I go to school,” says Kami, one of the oldest students in Nepal.

Kami, whose children have all left his hilltop home, first went to Kaharay primary school where he learnt to read and write with the seven and eight-year-old students before leaving after finishing grade five with the 11-year-olds; he now studies with 14-15 year olds.

Shree Kala Bhairab teacher D R Koirala then invited Kami to his school, which provided the grandfather with stationary and a school uniform including grey trousers, blue striped tie and white shirt.

“This is my first experience teaching a person who is as senior as my father’s age,” Koirala said. “I feel very excited and happy.”

The school scholarship does not stretch to cover food, though, meaning Kami’s breakfast of rice with a fermented green vegetable known as ‘Gundruk’ must sustain him until dinner.

The 20 children in his grade 10 class have dubbed Kami ‘Baa’, which means ‘father’ in Nepali, but despite his age their elderly class mate joins in all activities, including volleyball in the schoolyard.

“I used to think ‘why is this old man coming to school to study with us?’ but as time passed I enjoyed his company,” Kami’s 14-year-old class mate Sagar Thapa said.

“He is a little bit weak in studies compared to us but we help him out with that.”
Kami said he wanted to study until his death, adding he hoped it would encourage others to ignore age obstacles.

“If they see an old person with white beard like me studying in school they might get motivated as well,” he said.